One of the functions of a good therapist is to hold the hope for you when you feel hopeless in preserving your relationship.
In the middle of the deep work you are doing in the counseling session (and between times), it can seem overwhelming and like you’re stuck. Maybe you despair that things will ever change.
But I tell you true, if you both want things to change and totally dedicate yourselves to do what it takes, you do have a very hopeful prognosis, especially if you are availing yourselves of professional help with someone who gets you.
Do you have a time in your past that you can point to feeling it was all over, and yet things turned around and you are having it better than ever?
Write and let me know..!